Lavender Bridal Shower: Invitations | Recipe Cards | Personalized Recipe Binders | Decorations | Aprons | Recipes | Thank Yous and Favors |
Looking for a sweet and stylish way to celebrate your favorite bride-to-be? A “Stock the Kitchen” bridal shower is the perfect blend of thoughtful, fun, and fabulously practical. And if you love all things vintage and shades of purple, a lavender color theme adds the perfect touch of soft retro charm.
Whether you’re the maid of honor, a best friend, or a helpful family member, this guide will walk you through how to plan a stunning lavender-themed kitchen shower—from invitations to party favors, plus delicious lavender-inspired food and drink recipes your guests will love.
Start with a Lavender-Inspired Invitation
Set the tone from the very beginning with a vintage-style lavender invitation featuring sweet polka dots, a classic white bow, and retro kitchen charm. Make sure to include RSVP info, date, time, location, and a little note about the theme:
Recipe Enclosure Cards
Include a recipe card with the invite and ask guests to write down and share a recipe of a favorite dish they love to make.
Personalized Recipe Binder Keepsakes
From grandma’s lasagna to the best-ever chocolate chip cookies, these cherished recipes will be collected at the shower and presented to the bride in her personalized lavender recipe binder—a keepsake she’ll treasure forever.
Lavender Bridal Shower Decorations
Think gingham, polka dots, and dainty details. Cover the table with a lavender-and-white tablecloth, and top it with vintage-inspired drinkware and/or compostable paper plates, napkins, and cups that match the invitation design. Add fresh sprigs of lavender in mason jars or teapots for centerpieces that double as aromatherapy.
If you want to go all-out, have the bride and bridal party wear matching aprons in lavender polka dot prints—it’s adorable in photos and makes a great gift they’ll actually use!
Sip on Something Sweet: Lavender Lemonade Punch
What’s a bridal shower without a signature punch? This Lavender Lemonade Punch is as pretty as it is delicious—and fits your color palette to perfection.
Lavender Lemonade Punch
Adapted from A Spicy Perspective

Ingredients:
- 1 cup sugar
- 1/2 cup dried culinary lavender
- 2 cups fresh lemon juice (about 10 lemons)
- 4 cups cold water
- 1 liter lemon-lime soda or sparkling water
- Ice, lemon slices, and a few fresh lavender sprigs for garnish
Instructions:
- In a saucepan, combine sugar, lavender, and 1 cup water. Bring to a simmer, stir to dissolve sugar, then remove from heat and steep for 30 minutes.
- Strain out lavender. Combine syrup with lemon juice and remaining water.
- Chill, then pour into punch bowl with ice and top with lemon-lime soda.
- Garnish with lemon slices and lavender sprigs.
A Pretty Lavender Dessert: Mini Blackberry Cheesecakes
Inspired by Delish
Skip the sheet cake and serve up Mini Blackberry Cheesecakes for a dessert that’s as photogenic as it is tasty. These can be made in muffin tins or as no-bake cups in vintage teacups.
Mini Blackberry Cheesecakes

Ingredients:
- 1 cup crushed graham crackers
- 2 tbsp melted butter
- 8 oz cream cheese, softened
- 1/4 cup sugar
- 1/2 tsp vanilla
- 1 cup whipped cream or whipped topping
- 1/2 cup blackberry preserves
- Fresh blackberries for garnish
Instructions:
- Mix graham cracker crumbs and butter. Press into the bottoms of muffin cups.
- In a bowl, beat cream cheese, sugar, and vanilla. Fold in whipped cream.
- Spoon filling onto crusts. Top with a spoonful of preserves and a fresh blackberry.
- Chill for at least 2 hours before serving.
They’re light, sweet, and perfectly purple!
Sweet Send-Off: Coordinated Thank-Yous and Favors
Don’t forget the little touches! Send each guest home with a lavender-themed favor—think mini honey jars, mini personalized candles, or cookie cutters attached with lavender ribbon to a recipe card. Tie everything together with a thank-you note in the same polka dot and bow design as the invite. These details show your thoughtfulness and give guests a lovely keepsake from the day.
Tie It All Together with a Coordinated Collection
From start to finish, your lavender bridal shower should feel like one beautifully wrapped package. Here’s a quick checklist of what to include from our coordinated collection:
✅ Invitations with recipe cards
✅ Recipe binder to collect all submissions
✅ Matching aprons for the bride and crew
✅ Tableware in the lavender polka dot design
✅ Thank-you notes and themed favors
✅ Punch and dessert in the same soft color palette
The end result? A shower that’s not just coordinated—it’s unforgettable.
Love Lavender? Explore Other “Stock the Kitchen” Shower Themes!
If lavender isn’t quite your scene, no worries—we’ve got you covered in seven other fabulous colors, each with its own themed recipes and ideas. Check out these posts:
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- COMING SOON Sage Green with Cucumber Mint Punch & Tea Sandwiches
- COMING SOON Retro Blue with Blueberry Punch & Mini Pies
- COMING SOON Classic Red with Cherry Cola Punch & Red Velvet Cupcakes
- COMING SOON Peach Theme with Sparkling Peach Punch & Cobbler Cups
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